To be honest, I'm asking about healing for TG. I suspect it isn't really over until amends have been made. Or at least attempted with no expectation of forgiveness. I could be wrong, but I would guess it would bring closure to TG.
I don't recall the events around #1, but that was the trigger if I understand this correctly.
Strictly about healing for TG though. Maybe its not needed for the healing...
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."