ok i,m not sure how to feel but heres the deal.i hear through the grapvine the ex is moving to another state. ive been nc for about a month and i dont know if i,m happy or sad. its easy to maintain the fantasy (affair) when you only visit one weekend a month. i guess the affair will have to stand on its own two feet when they see each other every day. and the pos convicts skeletens come out of the closet!