Anyone have any advice on how to get out of treading water? I am living in the house, and I don't wanna be too pushy, but it feels like she is content to just be roommates and never try and make progress. I know time and patience is important, but it is as if none of my efforts are appreciated or noticed. I guess I just need some encouragement.

I know talking about our M or R is bad. I just am afraid that she will become so used to being nothing more than friends (and I use that term loosely, more like civil co-parents) and roommates, that she won't ever want to consider me as more. I really don't know what to do or expect.


Me-28
W-28
T-9 M-6
D-4