The detachment is just that...caring but not being on the same ride lol. Nice definition Ad!
Eyes...you are a control freak like me. "If they could just see what I am saying, feeling etc it would be okay". Once I really realized that I can't control anyone but me, I was able to be a little more at peace. It doesn't come easy though. If W knew what and how you felt and saw your side and said omg you are so right, well then you (all of us) wouldn't be here.
Sure they have responsibility in the breakdown, but you can't force anyone to look at it if they are not ready. You can't make anyone see your side either until they acknowledge their own part in things.
Keep the awesome DB up, I will take pointers from you lol! Mine is bad DBing lately....
