You are right that nothing is likely to change until one of you makes a move or does something. This has gone on with no movement on her end long enough that no one could blame you for tiring of waiting for her, but that note sounds a little extreme to me. Did you express your reservations to your coach about sending it?
I definitely would not say anything about the gifts.
Hi FY yes i talked to my coach about this and well she is the one that put the gift comment in there. I am just not to ready to send this text out yet. I Know something has to be done and I am working on it. I can say I did text her today and that would be the first contact for a week. well she got the text and she started to reply but then just stopped. I can tell she was typing a reply on my i phone.
Maybe I need to lighten up the text i just dont know.....