and not to nag on the atheists or agnostics here, b/c It's not like I'm a great member of my church, okay? But I want to make a small point here. Something that's been in the back of my mind a lot lately.
On one hand, some church goers use their religion to try and force their WASs to return. They want to "shame them home". And it's a huge turn off, of course. And some WAS leave in the first place, b/c an LBSer is so self righteous, that they become insufferable.
I get that^^^...I really do and I've seen it happen first hand.
But on the other hand, sometimes I hear too much resistance to ANY religious commentary, and
it makes me wonder if that might be a reason so many of us are HERE in the first place...
maybe if we stopped resisting the urges to justify our selfish choices
and or
really put our spouse ahead of ourselves, really worked on ourselves spiritually, maybe we would not be here at all.
It does seem ironic that anyone here, in so much pain, would resist the changes that being a little more religious, might require of us. I mean, we are here on a "marriages in crisis" place...so a little more God seems in order to me.
Or a lot more.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
