Time for a new thread. Second verse...same as the first? I sure hope not.
So OW appears to be out of H's life, who knows, but seems genuine. He seemed very upset both that he wasn't talking to her anymore and that he went as far as he did with her. It's hard to tell if she dumped him, but almost seems like he let go of her after learning that it was impossible to just be friends or the guilt of what he did made it impossible for him to be with her. So I thought, yay. OW over, he's going to move towards his rock bottom.
But now I've reached a "what the heck is this" moment. He has taken up to cybering/video sex with an out of state, previous co-worker. Except this time, it is 100% physical, no emotions. She calls him by pet names, makes advances for them to meet up, and he ignores it. It looks like all conquest to him, with no desire for meetup or relationship. This co-worker actually got fired for inappropriateness on the job. Easy target me thinks. I think he has approached other women with innuendo who are not responding, but this one is, and she doesn't know anything, not even that we are separated.
What's interesting to me is I know he finds me super attractive, but he has not made any kind of move on me, but seems ready to pounce on any other woman who gives him the time of day. He doesn't flirt with me or anything. Maybe he respects me, doesn't want to hurt me, doesn't feel good enough for me, couldn't handle me rejecting him?
Everything else seems to be the same. He's depressed, workaholic who stays locked in his apartment after work and all weekend watching TV shows.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17
