Karen43 Thank you for the response. But yes that is what I worry about also. I believe it may have been more like 1 affair in the last 4yrs and the other 2 at another job prior. So maybe more like 3 in 8 years? I'm not sure the timeline for the others as I didn't feel it would help me to get more details about them. I agree that for any chance she needs to make a huge effort and seek some sort of counseling. But she's not there yet.....
LittleGTO
Thank you also! You are right, with OP in her life this can't be fixed. I am trying my hardest to detach right now but I'm having trouble as we share the kids every 3-4 days. I hve seen her less in the last week and I think its starting to feel better........a little bit.
AnotherStander
Wow. To have someone inturpret my story like that is a kick in the chest. I'm not sure how to respond to your view exept I highly disagree. I have to run to an appt but will try to respond to your pts later.
