Thanks for the shot in the arm, Crimson... It's amazing sometimes how much those help.

I just re-read my threads, and I do honestly see the progress...encouraging.

As my C said when I was worrying to her about holidays, I need to think big, big, big picture. In the grand scheme a few days dark won't matter...

Just re-read sandi2 37 rules, too..this one:
24. Be patient......very, very patient. Give your spouse space and time. When you pull back, it will draw them towards you. It feels opposite of what you want to do, but it works!

Taking all the discipline I have right now

Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.