"For you vets that are detached do you ever have these setback moments or is the detachment pretty permanent?"
Yes to this^^^^^. But like Labug said, it gets better. I saw exw this past Friday at the supermarket. It didn't bother me and I just went about my business. This stuff takes time and patience. Obsessinng over what ifs is not helpful. Do fun things.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
