Don't call her. Picture that big stop sign in your head.

I'm pretty detached but it's taken a long time and it's gradual, sometimes so gradual as to seem like there's no progress at all. The trick is to accept that and keep moving forward. Baby steps.

Most days are good some days are crappy but nothing like in the beginning.

You'll get through this, read something, watch a stupid movie, take a walk, play with your kids.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss