Post everyday or even a couple of times/day. When your thread moves several pages back it gets buried.

Also, post to other threads, that lets others know you're out there. If you see posts from others that resonate with you, post to them and ask them to check our your thread.

I haven't read your thread yet so have nothing to add right now.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss