Does this sound like a MLC or am I just in a SSM?

[KarenR]

Your post might be a bit long to get alot of responses...but whatever else is going on (or not going on) in your relationship, it is important for you to start doing things differently (GAL is a good start) or he could be on his way to finding someone outside of your marriage. Talking to one of Michele's coaches is the quickest and most effective way of having a plan on how to go forward immediately so that you can 'nip this in the bud' and also for the 2 of you to work on the a relationship that is fulfilling to both of you. I would be happy to talk to you further about the coaching options.