Separated and confused

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Not sure if anyone is even reading these, but my W told me this morning that OM moved out of his house last night. He now wants to talk to her. W stated this doesn't mean that "I don't have a chance" with her. However, her heart is with OM and she doesn't know if this is her mid-life crisis or not but to please give her time to figure it out. She is confused. She thanks me for coming over to her house and helping fix things up and she does and has noticed all the changes I've made but her heart is with the OM. So, I am hurting tremendously this morning. I am praying like crazy and trying to make it through the work day which has really only started (West Coast). I never thought OM would leave his W to be honest and now that he has I'm devastated. W will be going to meet him soon and have their talk which I believe will not bold well for me. I have been praying often, but now feel the need to pray even more. I know God is with me, but I'm also scared for our kids. Yeah, they are 26, 25, and 19 but they are still wonderful and wear their hearts on their sleeves. My son has not been the same since my W moved out anyway so if this continues or deepens where W is seeing OM on regular basis it will devastate him even more. My dau's don't even know what's going on yet. Should I tell them? What do I do? I feel lost and my stomach is killing me!! I still believe God is going to heal my marriage..I really do, but this was a blow I suppose I wasn't ready for. S goes back to college on 17th. My last class for my bachelor's degree starts tonight. I feel like crap! Luckily, I only have one meeting today and it's a luncheon but still. God is in control I just have to remember that. His will be done. I pushed for this and now I'm getting it and I just have to ride it out with God. I just don't want our kids getting hurt. Please say a prayer for us all.