Unfortunately, I didn't treat her like that enough before. It is so frusturating. I guess I just keep up the "wow you're looking nice", Have a great day, Good for you" sort of thing? Cheerleading, basically????
Don't be that generic about it. WoA is more about specifics. For example if she takes the kids to the park then tell her "you know, the kids really love it when you take them to the park, you're really a great mother to them." That's the type of WoA you can show without it being pursuit.
