She brushes her off and ignores her mostly. Shuts down and turns away and tells her no discussion. Just like she always did to me when we needed to talk. All through our M if there was important discussion she would literally either leave the room or turn away. Cold shoulder. Apparently W tried to tell d "I know baby"... My d said it sounded phoney and compared it to JLo on American Idol. That floored me. I just said she is trying. She loves you. Not much more I could say or think at the time. Apparently it was d who walked out on her mom this time. Learned behaviour I guess.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
