Thanks Spartan. We definitely have similar sitches. I am glad I know who and what I am. Sad to see someone else self destruct but it is about me and the kids now as hard/mean it sounds. I cannot worry about W even though I see her screwing up in so many ways...personally, financially, as a parent, as a friend, etc etc. though I guess this newly found independence is new to her so maybe she will find her way. I have lived a on my own before and am not afraid of that. I think I did too much for her in many ways. Our first MC even told,me in a one-on-one session in some ways it is my fault for letting her walk on me and control for so long without putting my foot down. That was interesting. That was over a year ago she said that.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.