Hang in there Floyd and keep being a great dad for your kids. The more I read about your sitch the more I think we married identical people. I understand exactly how you feel regarding the frustration and hurt from living with someone that never takes blame and puts all the blame on you.
With that no matter how hard it is there is nothing we can do to change them. They have to want to change and it doesn't seem like either of our W's want to at this point. We need to continue to be great dads for our kids, continue to work on ourselves, and GAL.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
