Rereading your post, I wonder if your W may have been more withdrawn NYE precisely b/c it was your favorite holiday. And she isn't quite ready to be to total acceptance yet.
I'm expecting the same for Valentine's Day in my sitch. H asked me to marry him on bended knee on a Valentine's Day so I always made that day/memory special. I hafta be careful to stay away from any expectation this year.
You've been through some horrible stuff these past years! I think it must be harder having her at home, having to see some of her activities! You're a strong man!
Wonder if the EFT tapping is helping at all? I wonder what this year holds for you. It all sounds really good! You are the best at detaching!
It's nice when our spouses exchange the rose colored glasses for reading glasses
Hope you have a very nice and productive week!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
