Sorry I can't help you because you have just posted everything that I am feeling right now as well. Must be the holidays! He was coming every day to see me and I left for a few days without telling him and now I haven't seen him or heard from him in a week. I know db says to go NC, go dark etc etc but I don't understand not letting him know that I am there for him is a bad thing, but like they all say , it wasn't working with him stopping all the time so change it up. I guess I just need patience and faith.Its all I can do not to text or call him and ask whats up !
