Definitely want to help the kids manage their pain rather than add to it. Turns out last night W was cold again W was cold again with d10 about moving out and taking the for sale sign down. W left it with her with a comment "we'll see at the end of February". (That is when current listing agreement expires". D10 also said that her mom tried to console her but sounded phoney. That was strange. She described it as her mom saying "I know baby" . d10 said it sound like JLo on American Idol last year to contestants. I thought that was odd. Does d14 sense patronizing and it bothers her? Apparently she told her mom "No you don't. How could you know" and she left her mom instead of the usual mom dismissing her. These are behaviours I would rather them not learn.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.