I will get by....

[wishing, hoping]

OMG guys you are the greatest!!! Yes I am keeping a journal and have been for almost a year. I document everything from the time H gets home to what we eat for dinner. If I don't have the journal I keep notes on my phone and transfer them. I started keeping all my receipts so the courts can see exactly what I am spending and what I am spending it on. I have nothing to hide.

And Heather that is the most awful thing I have ever heard. Boy oh boy are you a wonderful person. Your H doesn't know how good he has it apparently.

So H calls me this morning and I brace myself for more spew. Surprisingly he suggests I stay with my mom another day. He says since I had such a horrible experience yesterday I should just relax and stay longer. Of course I immediately get suspicious. I tell him the kids have school and I have to work. He tells me to just take the day off and pull the kids out of school. I don't like doing that and I have taken a lot of time off lately for weather, holidays and court. So I made the decision to just come home anyway and go back for a longer trip next month when the kids have some time off school. H calls about 6 and asks where I am and I tell him I am almost home. He just says oh. I pick up the dog, get home, put stuff away, make dinner and get baths around and he calls and tells me he was "thinking" about coming home (this is about 8:30 pm) but decided that he would just come home in the morning. Like was there ever any doubt? What a surprise not.

I wonder what was his intention by trying to get me to stay at mom's another day? I don't believe he was just trying to be nice. There's always something motivating him.