NOt current on your whole thread, but read the last few posts. I agree w FY, not to say anything about the gifts. I would also change the last line to say, "I am hear to listen any time." The way you said it makes it sound like an open invite to spew.
I understand that being in limboland is an extremely difficult place to be. BUt, you have to be ready to accept her actions if you are thinking of pushing her to make some sort of decision. Are you?
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.