After more contemplation, I am rethinking my stance on my last minor meltdown over dinner and my W coming into my house. Now that I have a couple of days to think and try to figure out why I was so irritated about the events. Basically it's because I'm wounded and hurt, really not a big deal in the gran scheme of life. I will talk with my wife about her coming into my house with out permission if she does it again and I have another reaction to it. I will not go into her new place uninvited. I realize this is our place but she did walk out of it. If I feel like it is an invasion of my privacy then I will say something. I will tread slowly so as to not over react.

I really like being able to come here and post my thoughts and reactions, get feed back then work through my emotions before I do anything that I cannot take back. Bug your helpful as always. (((labug)))

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.