My D and I just got back from church. Today, it was like the sermon was directed right at me. It felt strong and put me a little more at peace with the world and my situation.

I really wish I had some more thoughts about how to reach out, without coming off as pursuing. My W's love language (I think) is words of affirmation. However, I feel that showing affirmation would come off as chasing and probably push her farther away. I just wish I had some better tools to connect with.


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8