I was just thinking about this and wanted to add it to my post. Maybe this may shed some light and somebody will say, Ahha moment. Yes this is what you need to do....
I mentioned my wife started an EA/PA with a man from a social fitness sight. Well she had gained weight after our daughter, but I feel like I looked at her the same way even though she was heavier, because she was still the person I married (if that makes sense)... Then when I noticed that things were changing between us she said that I was just jealous because I was afraid of loosing her because she had lost weight. Our sex life wasn't the greatest for the last 2 or so years. I was tired of being rejected and she didn't think I tried enough. So does anyone think this is pertenant to my situation, and can I do anything to change or fix it? After she said this I did exactly what I shouldn't do and went to super fix it mode. Constantly texting how great I thought she looked, and other behaviors. She took this as a last ditch effort to fix things. Does this bit of info help anyone with giving me some advise on what I can do? I'm facing the reality that my life will go on without my wife.... But I would love for her to be in it.
