House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 2)

[FloydMan]

She is getting coaching on how to go through divorce and the process. I would not call it therapy though. She cried and coaxed me into MC after her A revealed and begged and begged we work on it for 2 years. She even wanted to renew vows. I was turned around in therapy and got it early on. Once the MC's (tried 2 of them) turned the focus on her issues it freaked her out. She could not deal with the psychology nor understand she is still responsible as much as I for the dysfunction prior to the A. She refuses to accept her part and refuses to accept how she handles things. I had been back to see bot therapists after the S and they both hugged me and said they were proud of me but W just won’t allow herself to see herself. She only believes it was I that needed to change and is the root of it all.