My situation has changed and it isn't good at all. I'm still doing my 180 and LRT. I have started my own bank account and changed all my direct deposits to the new account.So after saying all that, my W said we needed to talk... So I said go ahead and she proceeded to tell me I was spending to much money lately! Coming from the person who has gone on 2 weekend trips in the last 3 weeks and has a 4 day trip planned in 2 weeks. SO when she said this I just smiled and walked out. I wasn't to the end of my road and she was texting me, Real mature. Way to work as a team. WTH!!!! You are cheating on me and now we are a team....!
Jump 2 days forward and, I go over to get our daughter for the weekend. I notice that she had changed out a few photos of us with other photos of new ones of her sister's kids. I didn't say anything or even act like I noticed. I'm thinking this was a direct response to our money conversation. Then today I called my W to tell her I was going to be coming by to get the daughters cold weather clothes. She said okay I will have them at the bottom of the stairs by the front door. So when I get there she wasn't home but there was a pair of men's shoes right next to where she put my daughters snow pants. So I entered the house and found an over night bag and guitar. I didn't touch anything and, didn't call or text the wife about it either. She has been trying to hide our separation from her family and mine. So this goes against all that. Any thoughts on what is going on here? Side not there are still pics of the W and I throughout the house and our bedroom. Is this an attempt to try to get me to fall back into my old routine and behaviors? What should my next move be? Do I move back in and say she can leave if she wants out? DO I ask WTH was that about or just don't say anything? it seems like I take 1 step forward and 30 back. Has anyone been in or heard of something similar where they were able to save the M?
As always, I need HELP!!!!!!!
I would really love to hear from a WAW. That my be able to help lend me some insight in to what I can do differently or better.
