No one is going to turn you out in the cold. Remember this is a marathon and you have to save yourself before you can save your marriage. If you quit DB, does that mean that you are done learning how to have a lasting r? Will you quit trying to change the things about yourself that contributed to the demise of your marriage?

If you quit, aren't you setting yourself up to go through this sometime down the road?

The way I see it, is that in my next r if it isn't with my w, I am going to have to be a rockstar of relationships. It is pretty daunting thinking about balancing two children, a ex w, while trying to cultivate a loving r with someone who might possibly have the sme external stressors that I have. So no matter what happens with my w and I, it is in my best interest to know all I can about myself and relationships.

Besides just because you quit, does that automatically mean you have closure and you are ready to move on?

Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on