Walking the path to my own happiness

[mamabird]

Had an interesting thought this morning. I'm thinking about my current situation like being in the ocean. The ocean has waves that are more powerful than you. If you just float and go with the currents, the ocean carries you along. Or, you can choose to try to swim against the current, but at some point, you're going to get awfully tired, and you could drown.

I guess I'm thinking it might make sense to try and go with the current for a while. No more fighting the tide so to speak. At this point, if H and I disagree on ANYTHING (literally anything) it's a sign to him that we need to break up. He's probably thought this for some time, maybe our entire marriage. Neither of us has been especially good with accepting the other person's POV, which is probably why I never felt heard or accepted!

So... floating along and seeing where the currents take me...