...with funny pics etc which was out of character for me anyways.
Anything out of character will be noticed as such by H, he knows you well. Just be cheerful and positive in your normal manner.
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I replied honestly that yes, we were having a good time but it's strange being there without him & there are a lot of disneyland memories that have been tough. No reply, I guess it was too much.
Yes, it was too much. You added to the quilt he is probably feeling. Even when they want to move on, they usually don't want to hurt us.
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He sent me an email today about updated medical insurance for the year. I guess I should be glad I'm not kicked off the insurance yet.
This is a good sign. It shows a concern for you, and a future with you still in it.
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He doesn't see his kids at all and it really bothers me but I don't want to get in the middle of their relationship anymore.
This is wise of you.
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He thinks he's a great dad but it's only because he's always shown up to all the events when I told him to. Now that I'm not telling him, he's off the radar. I don't know how to proceed!
He's confused and not himself right now. You said so in your other thread in the MLC forum. You proceed by giving him space and time. No pressure, because that will make him pull away.
Has he brought up D?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
