Andrew, good for you that you were able to enjoy yourself and not get engaged in arguments with your W. Ideally, one of you would move out of the house, but I see how this is difficult bc of the finances. Your W wants to take on the role of the "victim" of your "aggressive behavior" to claim that you're the one who should be moving out, when she's the one who had the A. So she's definitely taking advantage of what happened. Tough one. But you seem to be handling things well. Keep it up.
