One more thing that came to mind today - I don't think H has really ever had a "big" relationship before me. We never really discussed it, but as far as I know, he hasn't. Not that I really did - I had one R that lasted 5 years before H. And that R was equally dysfunctional in many ways. I probably learned nothing from it, which is totally my bad...
Anyway, just another piece of the puzzle...
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page