Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

[AM2012]

I did read about MLC and the thought has crossed my mind , but I really do think that the lack of intimacy is what really pushed him away. I mean if this was the reverse situation I am sure I would be where he is.

I feel that I have grown a lot over the last few mths. My patience have increased dramatically which had always been an issue. I AM a typical type A and I want everything done now. Well I realize it doesn't need to be done now. I am more laid back, overall just a happier person and I do think he sees this.

I am away for the weekend at a spa with friends. It's been a great time away. I will definitely be focusing on myself more.

H said to me the other day that he felt my behaviour was fake and it made him feel awkward. The thing is I felt I was acting normal for my new self,but he thinks its Just so phoney.

What do I do with him living back at the house? Not sure how long it will last.