Thanks Snodderly! "Flip the coin" those are my H's words, verbatim. I think he read, "How To Act as an MLCer", ha!
My adult H had a fit about a doc. on gas in the water supply throughout the lands, and minutes later turned the tv to Pee-wee on broadway, laughing out load. Yes, classic circling around and landing right into bed, depressed and angry once again.
Funny how it's a challenge for me to do for myself. I have empty nest syndrom but nobody has left the nest, and I am left without the H to be running away with not that all the hard work is done.
But I will learn...I will try something new everyday...at least that what I tell myself
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!