Ok bear with me! During this whole time I just FELT something wasn't right. I am VERY intuitive and I have been known to say things were going to happen, or say "somethings wrong" and something bad happens... or happened. No questions, no B/S! This is real! ok.. now... During this whole separation thing, I have had no gut feelings...
NOW I DO! Wife dropped off D3... I asked when final court date was and she rolled her eyes, closed them and looked up and then looked at me and said "Why?" I said "because it's my divorce too and I deserve to know" She said "you don't need to be there, don't worry about it!"
She got VERY aggravated and I started feeling something VERY wrong is going on now! She got the papers from me about 2 weeks ago. Filed them the week after and it's suppose to be about 30 days on average for the final court date. That would put it in JAN! She said "It's in Feb sometime" I said "I want to know the date" she said "If you find out the date, I'll have it changed"
My friend is going to call the courthouse and try to find out the date.
She slept with OM in late Sept, early Oct. 2nd week of oct we had a fake R. Slept with her Mon. Sat I was back into sleeping in the theater room.
Suddenly, all the "not right now"'s that she's been saying to the possible reconciling is making sense... WHAT IF... . she's pregnant? Ok, before your brain gets flustered... let me say this. SHE NEVER STOPPED TAKING HER ANTI ANXIETY / AD PILLS! like i had thot! She made the statement to me AND MY MOTHER... before the moveouts "If I get pregnant while taking these AD's I'll have an abortion, I won't have an unhealthy baby!"
It's starting to make sense now.. WHAT IF? I don't think she can get an abortion w/o my consent legally since she's married, IF SHE GETS the divorce SHE CAN! Why is she in a hurry? She's been in such a hurry to get me to sign those papers I was thinking "what, you gonna get married next month?"
She's gaining weight again! She's moody! Always tired! Been sick!
See a pattern? She had a period right after our sex, but she did the same thing when she conceived with Jordan, our daughter. Had a period after conception and still got pregnant. She's also been having "more than usual" appointments at the health dept.
Opinions? Advice? what CAN I do if I wanted to? WHAT IF THAT'S MY CHILD IF SHE IS PREG?
Now I'm really flustered in the head tonight.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.
