Walking the path to my own happiness

[dorightman]

My mom told me that one person in a Relationship has to give. It looks like neither one of you are willing to give. Stalemate.

I have to remind myself, and it took me awhile to realize that the LBS does have options. We can choose to leave and GAL.
I know you don't think you should have to leave the house, I felt the same way and was advised not to by everyone here, but I now think that it may be beneficial to the R. You always have that option if H won't go. It will give you peace of mind, freedom, time to regain your strength , and time to heal and get more clarity.
It will also give that to your your H.

You really do need to look at this as a marathon. I understand how hard it is, set your time frame, maybe 6 months? look for the baby steps....