Today is another rough day. My wife called this morning to ask for a quick favor. The conversation ended with her saying, "k bye". I know it isn't a big deal, but it feels like she is becoming more and more distant with her interactions with me. There has been zero talk about our R, obviously because I have stopped bringing it up. Therefore, our conversations have been fairly business like, mostly just regarding our daughter.

Lastnight, she went out with friends drinking and dancing. One of her girlfriends, who is also a very good friend of mine, said that she tried talking to her about our marriage. She said my wife pretty much shut her down and said she has made up her mind and that was that. Hearing that, was crushing for me. I have been struggling with what to do all day. Previously, I had given myself a personal goal of March 1st to see if our R would turn around. However, seeing how things are seemingly progressing for the worse everyday has me wondering if I should just call it quits on DBing....just very discouraged today. Needing some strength to keep going


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8