Can't D here til separated 12 months (which is looming) but arrangements regarding children and finances can be sorted anytime. We are in the middle of financial mediation and while part of me just doesn't want to doing this another part wants it done. I want to be worrying about my money and my debts and my spending only. Looks like I will keep the house which means keeping the debt which has grown about $15grand last year rather than reducing. Sooner the better really, H just spends and has no idea on what. He has always been a little bit like that but we used to at least discuss larger purchases but now it's like money is sand running through his fingers. I want to disconnect from that.
Nothing is easy any more and I find it exhausting at times. Plus hot weather just saps my energy. Very tired lately. So planning another lazy day, things will rev up when the girls get home tonight
Me46, H49, D17, D11 M22, T25 BD Dec26 2011 he moved out Feb29 2012
