wishing, Are you okay? At this point in time, I wouldn't worry about charging the tow, etc. to the credit card. You were sitting on the side of the road and it wasn't safe for you or the car. If your h gives you a load of BS, point out the number of times he has spent marital funds on his fun and the ow. That should shut his trap right up. This is a car that no only you use, but your children ride in. As long as you are married and both names are on the title and insurance, it is considered marital assets. He is such an @ss.
I do hope that the rest of the weekend goes okay for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.