How can one person quantify what another is feeling? That's as if you and I both break a leg,I have a high pain tolerance and call you a wimp when you complain that it hurts. You can't compare these things because the experience of pain, emotional or physical, is unique to each of us.

Why do you feel guilty? Maybe that would be a good topic for journaling. You must have some thoughts on it.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss