Hi SB. So glad to hear from you. The ice show sounded superfun!

I have wrestled with bitterness too, and you have so much more reason than me to be bitter. But think about this. Look around at the women who are bitter and ask yourself if you want to be that.

If you don't, just don't. It's all in your power. Just don't be that. It's not easy, but picture who you want to be and just shine your light and focus on your good.

Your h is a slimeball now, and everything he is doing reflects on him...not at all on you. You did not deserve this. Let him sink in the slime but don't let it drag you down. Don't be bitter.

Vent when you need to though, because you have to work through your feelings. You can't just erase them, but you must strive to overcome them.

So excited for you to have a baby boy!!!!!

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.