You can always have hope. Although it would seem that you really need to work on detachment. Stop worrying about what your w is doing or thinking and start thinking about getting yourself healthy and happy. LIVE FOR YOU!
I have been doing for me and living life. It is just hard to not think about the one you love.. I will continue to try to detach more but with the guidance of my DB Coach. It just hurts.. I have been trying to do more for myself but I can say the winter is not easy for me I am sure there are others that feel the same. Summer i seem to deal better but winter I just get stuck in the house to long and the sun light is less. I may try to go to tanning booth to get some sun. It helped me last year////