If I could talk to my DB coach today I would in a heart beat...but I can't until Monday Morning...so need some help here please. In my mind...no contact means no contact from either one...hs said earlier that he hasn't contacted her, that she contacted him...but he replied. I know that if our marriage is to survive there can be no contact whatsoever...that he should block and delete her...but he doesn't want to do that. She gets angry that he isn't leaving me...threatens him ( not with violence) stops talking for a few days, then makes contact again and it starts all over. So what do I do? Go see him, stay at home...what? I need help now!
