Floydman has experienced the same, and so have I. My eX was very good on routines. Also, we haven't allowed my S any candies and such since he is very young.
The first thing she did after BD was to start giving him candy. Then she gave me 10 minutes notice when she came to pick him up. I told her it was not ok, and the next time.....she gave me 5. LOL.
It bugs me, but what can I do? I can talk to her and if she won't listen then she won't. I'll continue to live up to my responsibilites as best I can and keep my routines. I'll give her time and hopefully she'll come around.
Keeping emotions in check is important, getting angry or bitter won't help.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
