I'd take the 31c and pool anytime. It is about 0c here near Toronto. It has been 8 days since W and I have spoken any words...it was a bad one about finances. She makes a point to overly-dote d14 and the dog in front of me. It is so phoney. She is off and on loving with d10 who she has not spoken with in 3 days. Her coparenting skills are terrible. She is a bank manager yet has our finances in such a mess. irresponsible with bills, credit cards, debt etc. she spends and spends. I should have nipped that in the bud years ago. As long as it is her money now, but she does dip into the joint expense account and that creates problems. It needs to be there until house is sold. Can't get L involved in every little battle as that costs more. Her sense of entitlement is scary. She has turned into such a selfish, mean-spiritied person from a caring, giving and empathetic person. Not just with me either. I noticed her mean streak a couple years ago when she started dissing some friends and their kids. Very critical of others, especially those wo don't agree wit her. I noticed her change about 4-5 years ago. She started taking a BP medication "Atacand", and I definitely noticed some mood and attitude changes. I tried to address this in therapy and she lost her top. The MC backed right off and ignored it. Did not even suggest shhe speak with her GP.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
