FM -
I suggest you read this post - may be helpful in understanding dynamics and the value of detachment...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2312110#Post2312110

It's not really giving up... it's all part of the plan.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page