As seeking answers mentiond in her posting, your h is very classic and yes, he is definitely the mirror image of the man you love and are married to. MLC flips the coin and they become the opposite of the person you knew pre-crisis.
Yes, you are observing your h on his own little journey while he is at home. Detach as much as you can and try not to be baited into arguments or discussions concerning the relationship. Just remember...you didn't break him, therefore, you can't fix him.
Unfortunately, his journey isn't one that you weren't invited on and yet, you have to have interaction w/him. His journey will take him to all levels from the age of a child to a teenager and then back to an adult. Hopefully he can navigate this journey and come out the other side a mature adult.
While he is circling earth, this is a time for you to learn new things or get out that to do list and start working on the projects that you have put aside for a long time. Keep the focus on you and your family. Allow God to work on your h.
P.S. I'm glad you decided to come over to the MLC Forum.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
