On reflection, I think this should be in the SSM forum and not sure if I should move over there. Today I tried a bit of amorous behaviour this morning in bed which resulted in DH leaping out of bed saying he had to get up! Maybe now is the time for a 180. I decided to make it a game, less hurtful and avoid all physical contact unless initiated by DH. This is proving quite hard, have to walk around with arms crossed behind my back. Within an hour I had an effect. DH actually gave me 3 goodbye kisses before he left!! If I can keep this up, and this works this is amazing......maybe I am just a bit too over demonstrative for him.


Me 49y H 52y
T23 y
M17 y
??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker
children 8-12