No you are not a weirdo...it is amazing how one can be trapped in their own problems and not know what to think but know what to say to another. That is what makes this board so good. Definitely your d's mental and emotional health is your responsibility. My W does the same with my d10. My d gets hurt by her mom's dismissive and distancing ways toward her. I have tried to express this to W but she does not believe me. I have simply told d10 months ago to express how she feels to her mom directly. This caused a problem but in the end my conscience is clear because it is the right thing to do. It is not a favour to W but rather my d. My W has started back to the old ways of dismissing her again. I am told by counsellor not to intervene anymore but it is heartbreaking. She is losing out on a relationship in the future with her d. W gives d14 all kinds of attention and spoils her. I think mynd14 is liking the attention from both of us a little to much lately.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
